There are a few things and it is overwhelming. My health, my Mom her cataracts I am trying to help her and she waits on my stepdad so much that she is not able to keep going always in pain at that and my Dads health his heart and breathing and possible melanoma at the temple of the head. Then my stepdads health is serious not good and is wheelchair bound, my brother wont stop drinking it isn't a lot but I worry about him. My sister and her issues with the guy she is dating and wont leave, My son and his health and some other issues with his job and his fiancés health he is worried about, but my husband. I don't know what is going on. He is not himself. He has gotten to where he is name calling everyone in my family not nice words or comments and hand gestures. He hasn't ever done this and I pray for him but we are coming up on our 12th wedding anniversary next week and he is acting like this the last few months. I thought was due to pain and depression due to his last 3 surgeries and 3 more coming up. I love him and he needs help and has no one else plus being deaf is hard for him because I am not good signing to him so that is another issue. I am spread out and trying to be strong for my family and yet I cannot tell any of them of how my husband is doing. I get so mad and pop back with words and that is not me at all. I am trying to old my marriage together and do what I can for each one of them because even though we are all close my stepdad cant help my mom my sister listens to her boyfriend first for what he wants and my brother when he drinks gets an attitude and my dad has no one. My son is my only one. So I am the only one other than God. Thank you for your prayers means a lot.