I have a sister-in-law who says she has never been my friend nor does she ever want to be. She goes to church every Sunday and professes to be Christian. She has a lot of hate in her heart...even for her own children. I pray she will change and be a true Christian That Loves . According to what I've read and heard in sermons...GOD wants us to Love one another. We have to forgive to be forgiven. I have forgiven her any hurts towards me.