Please help us lord, my family is falling appart I don't know what to do to make it better. My parents always speak to me in such a hateful tone, when there is no need to do so. i try to tell them to stop but they just don't care how much it is hurting me. And because I don't let them push me around unjustly and I don't let hurt me without fighting back, they hate me. My parents always treat each other like crap too, espeically my dad to my mom, though the reverse happens too. And mom lets herself get pushed around and expects me to do the same, and i will not tolerate unjust verbal cruelty. And I'm sorry that all this happens. Sometimes I made mistakes too, and hurt their feelings, I don't deny it, but I am the only one in my family who accepts resopsiblity for the mistakes I made and appolizes for them. My parent's don't even recongize that they are doing wrong too. And they treat other people like crap to for no reason. We are always fighting. These daily fights have occured for more than a year. But still even if nothing is wrong, i still always get verbally (and on a rare occastion physcially) bashed, and I am sick of it. I want our family to seek some counsling therapy and to go back to loving each other as we used to and I am willing to make the change in my attitude if they are equaly as willing. It won't work if the whole family doesn't make an effort. Lord help us through this hard time, and allow me and my family to fogive each other and for us to love each other again.