Erica you should know deep in your heart if this is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with. Sometimes we need to hold out for God's best. just keep praying, the Holy Spirit will show you the way. As for Eric, he's growing and has a long journey ahead of him. All you could do is guide him and advise him, it's up to him to accept or reject what you tell him. I pray for you, for your relationship and for Eric. May Jesus keep his loving hand on you guys.