I need strength to let go of the man I have loved for 25 years, to be able to love him enough to let him go if he feels that is the right thing to do, and to believe that I am valuable in my own right. Give him the courage to look in the mirror I held up and make the changes he knows deep down inside he needs to make in order to be a happy productive functioning adult. I pray that we both find our way to peace of mind.