I realised now previously when I was in my ex department, I was in a condition of codependency. Basically almost all my ex colleagues in tt department were senior citizens and they heavily relied on me even to the tiniest matter. It was an unhealthy relationship whereby I had felt more like a slave and helpless in the sense even the Head of Department just abdicate to me. Even though I could say it was not my job, but it still ended up me doing it. Even I had left them and changed dept, the addiction was still there as their enabling behaviour of playing victims were there. And I could not help myself from helping them until finally one day, I decided totally cut off from them especially after the my ex boss silent treatment. Please pray me to heal and pray for my ex boss Monica that God will heal her from orphan spirit. Tq.