so wonderful that you are looking for improvement in your life...stress makes people/animals not eat or drink. Is Morris a person or animal? Assuming pet. Take him to a clinic if you can, make Morris your goal in healing by healing him....you will heal yourself in thie process. Don't worry about meeting anyone, as you have to heal yourself first and fine joy in yourself. It doesn't work any other way. And it is a beautiful thing to take care of Morris, who deserves this along with you. start with helping MOrris and healing with him....and empower yourself through that. Step one.