my 35 year old son is an alcoholic..and needs help to fight this, the alcohol has over taken him, where he has lost 9 jobs in less than 2 years...I am so sick with worry, and so tired of crying, that i'm afraid of what it is going to do to me..he doesn't get to see his children, he has no friends, just got out of the hospital 3 weeks ago from detoxing, and he is on the verge of cirrohosis, but the vodka has wiped away precious brain cells.., as a mom I am lost