This is a very natural reaction for him, he is the man, the provider, the protector, are you married to him?
You need to pray for him, it is extremely hard for anyone to pretend they are happy when everything that makes them male is turned upside down. I pray God gives you patience, wisdom understanding. He cannot give you what he does not have at the moment. Pray for him, for God to open a door for him. Try not to become the Male in the relationship by taking care of all the responsibility, it will make him feel worse. Don't become his MOTHER in the relationship taking care of all his needs, this is very demeaning for a man. Just be supportive and the loving woman you were when he met you. God made you as helper, not fixer. Men need to be in charge and lead. They are very different to us females. Give him time and space and don't smother him. Godbless you.🙏💕💖
Dear Patricia, that cleaning work is very strenuous and takes a lot out of you I know. I also know how lovely it feels to get an early mark when the work is hard. I have done this myself and I have also worked an extra 2hrs and not been paid for it just because I wanted the client to Value me. We all make mistakes my darling, sometimes I think God wants us to slow down and love the people he puts in our lives, more then the work. I know when my Mum had a cleaner come she had a very special friendship with her and loved seeing her because she was so thoughtful and caring. When she was moved it was awful for Mum because the other cleaners would race through their work, some taking shortcuts so they could leave early. As a daughter you want the very best for your Mum, no- one ever expects you to babysit but if you are being paid for 3hrs work you are expected to do what you are paid for. I hope from this mistake you learn too value people God brings to you over work and money. Godbless you.🙏💕💖 God wants you to share the unique loving nature he has given you because he knows how much other people value having you in their lives.xo
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It is an awful pain, when we put so much of ourselves into loving someone more then ourselves, more then Our God who should come first. I know what you are going through my sweet darling, because I went through it so many times myself.
I kept going through it till I had hurt so much and cried so many rivers of tears that I was no longer able to feel. I became so numb. This Man you have made into an idol, that is the center of your world. You my darling need to pray everyday and start reading at least a paragraph of the Word of God. It completely changed my life within 4 weeks. The hurt emptiness and loneliness I use to feel went away when I started to fill it with the Holy Spirit. Jesus said I must go to my Father but do not despair, I am sending you my Holy Spirit, the Comforter. Remember how the blessed Virgin suffered, the Holy Mother of Jesus. Remember when he was only 12 years old his MOTHER and father searched for him for three days borrowing. Jesus Mother knows more then any woman what suffering is. About 8years ago now I started to pray the Holy Rosary everyday. It took me every ounce of effort to do it and many times I didn't want to. The Holy Rosary is a weapon prayer that has won many wars. Look up the battle of Lepanto. All the soldiers on the ship's were greatly out numbered. They got down on their knees and began to pray the Holy Rosary. A Miracle happened! (Look it up and see what happened.)
You are suffering because you have put this man before God and this man is unworthy. Nothing will change until you ask God to forgive you and put God your CREATOR where he belongs. No man is equal to God. It is not just you that is hurting. It took me a long time to wake up to what I was doing and trust me only pain will come from worshipping man. Now you must make a choice. Look up how to pray the Holy Rosary. The Hail Mary is taken from the words the Angel Gabriel spoke when he appeared and told her she had found favour with God and would conceive a son. The Holy Rosary is the story of Jesus life on earth. It starts with the Our Father prayer that Jesus taught the Apostles. Jesus gave us his blessed Mother as an example for all of us when he was dieing on the cross he said woman this is your son and then to St John his Apostle, son this is your Mother. I said the 5 decades of the Holy Rosary everyday now for almost 8 years and after a short time it made me much stronger, mentally. The Holy Spirit filled every emptiness in me. I never feel lonely and I don't hurt like I use to as much. When I do feel hurt from my children I offer all my tears and any pain to God because he can use it to save souls. I have never hurt over a man again because God is always first in my heart and soul. Holy Love to you🙏💕💖