I have been seeing someone for the past 5 months. I never thought I could trust another guy after my ex husband. This guy has gained my trust and has me feeling like I haven't felt before or remember feeling in a 10 year marriage. He's had a rough patch with finances due to illegal actions on his account that has set him back and into a hardship trying to recover, survive and support his child. His dedication to his child is what sent me in to putting my heart on my sleeve and letting God take control. He's the type that shuts people out when it gets to point not sure what to do or how to handle it. I lent him a chunk that put me in a tight spot with my own finances but I wouldn't have lent it if I didn't want to help him out and trust that in time he'd pay me back. I'm not worried about the money if I get it back I get it back. All forms of being able to communicate with him aside from snail mail is shut off until he can get back on track. There is some distance between us for mileage so its not like I can just go down to visit. Please pray things get back on track and better for him.