Satan has used my children against me. I have no respect from my oldest son, He says he loves me but doesn't need me. He hates his baby brother, and my 33 yr old controls all. If she tells my oldest not to get me anything for mother's day he won't. If she tells him to buy me something he will. She has disrespected me since she was 15, and put me through so much. I love her unconditionally, and still help her out when in a bind. I recently asked God for strength in letting her go. My family has hatered, and the brother against brother, has fallen on my kids. Grown and married, but I'm torn about all this. I live in louisiana and they live in Michigan. But the farther I am the better they are. All I want is for them to be united like they use to be. It's how I raised them to love one another. Please help me pray, It's been 39 yrs and I feel like giving up.