pray that I may understand. UN/Conditional Love. I need to understand, if someone mistreats you repeatedly and , you keep forgiving them. Even when they hurt your child emotionally ...You forgive and ask them to try and do better. They basically laugh in your face... finally you say," I can take no more. I can't do it , you have hurt my heart way too much" How do you do this unconditionally. Is that love? If it was or is love how can it be unconditional? I am confused because I love myself and my children... love, want the best for him I just don't want him creating his form of crazy in my world or my sons. Help me father because I don't want to hurt another , I must protect me and mine... How do we do this with love?